Fishin’

Just for starters: There are just some words that you can not say the full “ing.” Fishing is one such word, so I will just say it as it should be: fishin’

Daniel loves to talk about fishin’. He use to imagine fishin’, dropping a string on the other side of the fireplace screen. Recently I got him a cheap toy fishin’ pole, complete with magnet nose fish. As I said, it was cheap, so it was transient, to say the least.

When I knew my brother was going to have some time off this week, which would actually put him in town rather than out of state or country, I asked if he would take Daniel fishin’. Time and place agreed upon, I needed to get Daniel a real pole.

After the pole was purchased, Daniel would *not* stop talking about going with Damien. He was beginning to drive me crazy. I told him he had to go to sleep 3 more times before it was fishin’ time. Once he woke up on the morning of fishin’, he asked about every 10 seconds if it was time to go to my cousin’s pond.

Damien talked with Daniel about fixing his pole properly. I tried to convince him to touch the worm, with no success. The two began fishin’ and all was well. I was very pleased with how quiet and attentive Daniel was.

Many casts later: no fish. My cousin took his son out on the small boat and began to catch fish immediately. After they enjoyed a few catch and release moments, they came to shore to trade out with Daniel and Damien. Daniel was thrilled to be out on the boat, and he still had not stopped yacking about fish.

Soon after departure, Damien caught a fish! As he reeled it to the boat, the fish began flopping, which almost gave Daniel a heart attack. He began screaming and crying, saying he did not want the fish. He placed his pole down and began to get out of the seat. Damien, holding his pole and newly caught fish in one hand, had to grab Daniel and place him back down with the other. Suddenly, Daniel’s pole had a nibble and was being tugged. Damien had to grab that pole before it was pulled into the pond. He then began to reel in that line with a fish in tow, which scared Daniel near to death. He was screaming and crying, hollering out “Put that fish back in the water!” And believe it or not, it was all about the funniest thing I have seen in a long time. My cousin, his kids, Wesley, and I all sat on the land, completely helpless, gawking and chuckling at Daniel, Damien, and the two flopping fish in the boat. The boy who wouldn’t shut up about fish was now actually catching them and he could not handle it! (just check out his face in the photo below! you can click on it and make it larger)

Once the fish were back in the water, Daniel was calm and collected again. He looked at Damien and said, “Let’s catch a baby fish now!” as if nothing ever happened. He did get a second fish and the tears and shouts were more subdued, which was nice.

All the way home, Daniel kept repeating, “I had a great time with Damien and those fish. We need fishin’ again Momma!”

My cousin, the pond owner, wins fishin’ tournaments each and every year. He has all sorts or lures and a pretty, fancy boat. Being that my son was not too keen on touching the big, fat worms (he’ll touch tiny ones in the yard), nor was he even contemplating touching a fish, I am not too sure if that is in his future. I do know, however, that all of us will remember that hilarious moment of uncle and nephew on the pond…..some just more fondly than others!

No Baby & No Bowling

To start with: I have not had the baby :o). I have had a few folks check-in on me recently, so I thought I would just kick off this post with that fact. I do go to the doctor again tomorrow, however, so maybe there will be some news to share then.

Being I am only a momma to one kid outside the womb, I am still attempting to do things with Daniel that might be fun for the two of us, not to mention much easier to coordinate with just one child. Today, we planned to bowl for free at a local bowling alley thanks to Kids Bowl for Free. Daniel can bowl 2 games every day this summer, at no cost to us! I did purchase a “family pass” for about $20 that would allow for 4 other folks to bowl 2 games along with him each time, but that is a pretty minimal expense. To make the day extra special, my brother Damien planned to go with us. Since his company did not have a job for him to work on this week (he is a stinkin’ awesome mechanical engineer that fixes printing presses all around the world), he gets to stay at home and get paid, and being that he is typically traveling, it is always nice to have him home. And believe it or not, a single man with no pressing work agenda opted to hang out with his super preggo sis and his super cute nephew—and I didn’t even have to beg and plead  ;o).

Upon pulling up to the bowling alley, there were about only 5 vehicles there= excellent………and about 4 school buses= NOT excellent. We went in anyway, not sure exactly what the students that came on those buses might be doing. Upon entering, we immediately saw the melee at the shoe counter from extremely hyper middle school students. I quickly said, “Daniel has no idea what bowling is, so he is not going to miss it if we don’t do it.” When then decided to just head to the enormous arcade instead.

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This, too, was a crowded space, but we decided to let Daniel check things out anyway. Damien was going to get tokens, but there were way too many pre-teens in line trying to do the same. I said to forget it because Daniel would be just as happy pretending to play the games rather than truly playing them, which is a beautiful stage of childhood I might add. Soon enough, he will realize  if you spend money, the games do a lot more, and he will insist for spare change! He and Damien began going from game to game pushing flashing buttons and pretending to drive the cars, laughing each step of the way. I toddled behind, absorbing the fun, glad that Damien was the one being dragged in and out of each seat rather than me. While walking, I found a few dollars that some kid dropped on the floor, and amidst the chaos, I knew there would be no way of finding to which middle schooler it belonged, so I just decided to keep it and use it to actually get Daniel some tokens once the line dwindled. We then began to run around the arcade trying to convince Daniel to focus long enough to fun with damien 004realize games did more than have flashing buttons that did nothing when pushed. A game of basketball, some target practice, a min-bowling game, some skee-ball, and a drive in a car later, we decided to call it quits, much to Daniel’s dismay. I kept all his tickets for another trip because there were so many others stampeding the ticket redemption booth that I did not want to bother, especially since he had no idea what the tickets meant. Since we have a pass for the entire summer, we will be back—when school buses are NOT there—and we can redeem them then.

Afterward, Damien suggested we visit a Japanese restaurant. It was a reasonably priced hibachi restaurant that was not too busy for lunch. We all enjoyed watching the chef cook up our meal, and it was neat, even though he did not do as many tricks as other places I have visited. Daniel behaved very well, having fun smelling the air when smoke emitted from the grill. He did get a little startled when the chef first started up the grill with a big, high, and hot flame, but in all honesty, so did I.japanese food

Even though it did not go as planned with our bowling adventure, it was a really fun day, notwithstanding driving home in a monsoon! It also made me love my brother SO much becuase he chose to spend the day with us, chaos and all.

*These pictures are crummy becuase they are monstly action photos taken with my camera phone. I had my digital camera in my purse, but with all the adolescent craziness around, I did not want to pull it bother with it.

Don't Judge a Book By Its Cover

Damien, my world traveling engineer brother, tends to bring
back neat little souvenirs to us once he returns home from his travels. As a
result, Daniel has a closet sprinkled with shirts from foreign countries. Along
with clothing, our little man is spoiled by receiving neat and unique toys from
the places his uncle visits, such as a toy fire truck from Poland and a detailed wooden horse from Germany. Books
are also a neat gift that Daniel receives. He has a picture book that is all in
German, but the German words are right next to everyday beach and ocean
objects, so if Daniel chooses for this book to be read, we can say each thing
in English. Most recently, after returning from a trip south of the border,
Damien brought Daniel a very neat picture book that has English and Spanish for
each picture. These books we can work with, and we are always very grateful for
the sweet blessings from our loving family. There is one book, however, that
Thomas and I have begun to dread seeing Daniel choose at bedtime. Nothing is
worse than when Daniel happily chooses this book for us to read:

It looks innocent enough, right? Well, the old adage, “Don’t judge a book by
its cover” applies here, for your assumptions of it being a great read would be sorely wrong.

For starters, it is from Brazil and completely in Portuguese.
I know that this language has many similarities to Spanish, which I am familiar
with, yet I can not decipher many words in this book at all. Being that the
words are of no help, it would be logical to build off the images to help tell
the story, using some simple inferring skills. It is at this point we encounter
another issue: most of the pictures give you nothing to work with (see the horse and rock & chicken with book pictures), not to mention they
are creepy (just look to your left!).

So, the story then has to come completely out of your head
on a whim. Daniel has developed a new skill where he is aware of the amount of
words on a page, and he can calculate how long you should talk in order to be
reading all the phrases. If you appear to be cheating him of words, he will tap
the page with his finger until you finish. Demanding isn’t he.

Another flaw: the book is l….o….n…..g… 111 pages to be exact. Typically, with such a long story, we would
admittedly flip a few extra pages with each turn of the page. However, a new
part of little man’s bedtime story routine is that he holds the book, not you. You must, therefore, read each and every page, for absolutely none are
to be skipped.

Recently, Daniel has been choosing this book each and every
night, and we have endured its “reading.” As Thomas was taking him to bed a few
nights ago, he made a comment about not wanting to read that book again. I,
being the great wife that I am, quickly made it to Daniel’s room and procured
the book in order to prevent the extended read for Thomas. Silly ol’ me just
took it into the living room and placed it on the couch. Guess what I had to
read the next morning :o).

A few more things that I do know about this book, beyond the
frustrating things already stated:

  1. The girl puppet finds a roach in her oatmeal and she and
    the boy puppet keep it, taking it to various other locations, for some odd
    reason.
  2. A horse plays in a pile of trash that is stacked outside.
    The boy puppet collects a cup full of the trash and keeps it, for some odd
    reason.
  3. Daniel really likes it,  for some odd reason.

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